I've got a dentist that I love. I bet that's the first time you've heard that comment. Let me illustrate. A year or so ago a crown on my front tooth needed to be replaced. So picture me in the waiting room thinking about how painful it was the first time, what with the multiple Novocain shots in the roof of my mouth and front of the gums. Jzheesh! Hey, look at those pretty fishes in that aquarium over there, look at the video playing with all the happy, evenly-spaced teeth people, oh look it's my turn, I've hardly been here 2 minutes.
The assistant reclines me in the chair. They've got that same video playing above me with all the services they offer and the white-teethed happy people. The assistant comes up beside me, puts on a topical anesthetic, then brings up the needle below my line of sight and tells me I might feel a slight pinch. Hmm, that's not too bad. We wait awhile to let it work. Dentist comes in cheerfully; asks if my chin feels numb, yes and my nose too feels or actually doesn't feel. We laugh. He asks me a few questions that I can say yes to (great technique). He tells me to let him know if I feel anything by raising my hand. Okay, here goes. He starts to drill and I feel it; notice my hand raising urgently. He stops immediately. We do another shot and get the same thing. He asks me if I've ever tried nitrous oxide, and I happily answer yes. He asks if I'd like it (would I like it, are you kidding me, how 'bout you pack up a bottle of that in a to go bag too). They hook me up, I breathe deeply, dang, are you sure this is legal? Anyway, I suppose they do their thing cuz pretty soon we're done, it goes without a hitch and I'm getting unhooked from the happy gas.
So, yeah, that's a great experience, they've got great drugs, they have exceptional expertise at keeping me calm and distracted, they're friendly, they let me know what to expect, etc. but wait there's more! Next time I go in they find a cavity and give me a quotation for the charge and listed as a separate line item is the nitrous oxide. They remembered! Oh glorious day, I have a cavity! When I went in for the filling, the assistant began setting up the nitrous and confirmed with me, "you want the nitrous don't you?" Again, procedure goes without a hitch. They made me comfortable at the place I least like to go. They took my mind off of the pain, they took the feeling out of my mouth. They offered me a fun way to have the procedure. They noted my situation and kept it in my file. They referred to my file for the next time. I wasn't humiliated or embarrassed about my need for more pain-numbing. I wasn't made to demand anything. They did the things that they are expert at and didn't make me have to think about it. They have my loyalty. I don't care if another place opens up across the street and offers services for half the price; I am loyal to my dentist and his staff.
So what's my point? Don't think that it's the customer's responsibility to demand a great experience or a Completely Satisfying experience. It is your responsibility to deliver that great experience and that means doing everything right, doing it cheerfully, anticipating my needs, responding, and making an atmosphere where I don't feel confused, abused, or irritated. That is your job. That is your expertise. If you don't do that you don't get my loyalty. And loyalty is a 4, loyalty is a referral, loyalty is another purchase, loyalty is more gross, loyalty keeps you in business, loyalty makes you profitable.